When most people want to get back in shape, their initial step is to totally change their diet and start a grueling exercise routine.
In most cases, this will come to an abrupt end after two or three weeks when you get tired of eating salad and you’re so sore you can hardly move.
Sound familiar?
If you want REAL RESULTS, there are five very important steps to take before you move on to diet and exercise, and these are the steps that are most often overlooked.
These five steps are explored in-depth in this article:
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- Mindset shows you how to get back in shape by getting you to answer the questions about why you are starting this journey and what will keep you going during tough times.
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- Getting enough sleep is the step that helps your body recover, rebuild, and re-stabilize important hormone levels.
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- A healthy eating plan makes sure you get the nutrients you need to stay healthy, feel good, be energized, and rebuild muscles.
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- A formal exercise schedule helps you to get and remain fit, build a strong and healthy body, and improve your natural movement.
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- Adding supplements to your meal plan will optimize your health and recovery.
We'll dig deeper into these steps below, but first, watch this video.
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Step #1 – Get Into the Right Mindset
Mindset is the first step on your journey to get back in shape and will help you strengthen your motivation and keep you disciplined when you want to give up and stuff yourself with chips and cookies.
Essentially, you need to ask yourself an important question — “Why?”
It’s usually the first question you ask yourself when you think of giving something up, so knowing the answer and having it strong enough to keep you going will be paramount.
I’m sure you've been there before: “God, why am I doing this?”
If your answer is a flimsy one, like “Because I want to look good,” it will only keep you going for so long.
There is no emotion there, and once you start looking “pretty good,” you’ll probably be happy and have no drive to fulfill your potential.
If your answer has substance behind it, though, like “Because I want to show all the people that poked fun at me for being overweight that I can be in great shape and look amazing,” you have an emotional connection to your goal, and nothing will stop you!
Knowing why you are starting a weight loss program or a muscle-gaining program will empower you, and every time you ask yourself why you are doing it, you will have a solid answer to remind yourself.
Prepare a 30-Day Mission Statement
To get yourself in the right mindset and to give yourself your true ‘why' answer, we recommend preparing a 30-day mission statement detailing exactly what you want to achieve and why.
Firstly, think about what your current habits towards healthy eating and exercise are costing you. Think about the emotional cost, the physical cost, and the time cost.
Then, visualize and imagine what the benefits will be if you change your habits and achieve your goals. Add these to your 30-day mission.
An example could be:
Having your mission statement written or printed out and put in a prominent place where you will see it daily will be helpful to keep your focus on why you are undertaking this journey.
Step #2 – Get Enough Sleep To Rest and Recover
There is a lot of speculation about how much sleep you should get to make sure your body rests and recovers to its optimal level.
As it is such an important part of your daily process, you should sleep an absolute minimum of 7 hours, preferably 8.
Being sleep-deprived will be counter-productive to any steps you are taking to lose weight, and although it will not completely negate them, it will have a negative effect.
Sleep is what helps your body to recover and recharge at the end of every day. Any stresses you have put on your body are fixed, and your hormone levels are re-balanced.
Hormones like HGH (human growth hormone), which is responsible for helping to burn fat, and ghrelin and leptin, which manage fullness and hunger, all need sleep time to balance and regenerate.
What Happens When You Don't Get Enough Sleep?
If you’re sleep deprived, these hormones do not balance properly, and your body will end up holding on to fat; you will get cravings, and you will not feel satiated when you eat, leading to you eating larger portions.
Also, if you consistently sleep less than 6-7 hours, there are more serious consequences. Even just a few days of poor sleep can:
- Dramatically impair optimal brain function.
- Halt your ability to lose weight.
- Decrease recovery from exercise.
- Impair immune function and disease resistance.
- Increase your risk for heart disease.
- Promote insulin resistance and diabetes.
- Increase the risk for depression.
Many of these effects happen after ONE single night of poor sleep. Most become very noticeable after two to three nights of poor sleep.
It may feel counter-intuitive to sleep more when you want to lose weight, but it is one of the best things you can do to help your body naturally reset and aid fat loss.
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Step #3 – Focus On Nutrition, Not Restriction
When starting a healthy eating plan, you should make sure that what you undertake is not restrictive, is easy, and is sustainable for the long term.
Going on a crash diet to lose 10 pounds, just to put it all back on again when you return to your old habits, is a big waste of time. Don’t be pulled into this type of dieting.
Remember, a healthy eating plan is more effective than exercise for weight loss. To put it more simply, you can't out-exercise a bad diet!
Here at the Fit Father Project, we have a very simple and straightforward healthy eating strategy that we call the Perfect Plate. Using our Perfect Plate method is simple and doesn't take much planning. It's basic but effective, and here's everything you need to know about it.
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- Half of each plate should be vegetables, particularly lower-calorie, non-starchy ones (remember, green is good).
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- One-fourth of each plate should be nutritious, protein-rich foods (turkey, chicken, lean beef, tuna).
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- One-fourth of each plate should be fiber-rich carbohydrates (sweet potato, brown rice, quinoa).
Also, be sure to mix in healthy fats at each meal, consume three servings of dairy foods or plant-based alternatives (plant milk or plant-based yogurt) daily, and eat about two servings of fruit each day.
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The idea behind our Perfect Plate method is that you can select one type of each food for each meal and combine them to make delicious, easy meals.
To make it even easier, we recommend a meal prep exercise twice weekly to prepare all the food you need for the coming three days.
If you store the food, it will always be handy when you need it, and you will not find yourself rooting around in the refrigerator or cupboards for your next meal.
If you have the decision already handled, you are much less likely to choose something on the go and are much more likely to build the habit of taking the healthy option.
Creating this habit will make it a more sustainable and long-term plan and one less thing to think about each day. Your food decisions only need to be made twice per week.
Step #4 – Start An Exercise Plan That You Can Build Up Gradually
One of the most important things to do when you start an exercise plan is to start slowly and build up gradually. If you start too intensely, you will get sore or injured, and it will put you off from exercising.
It’s possible that this happened to you before, and that is why you’re now learning how to get back in shape again. If that’s the case, listen to our advice, and you’ll be back on track in no time.
Starting too quickly and feeling sore can be extremely depressing as it makes you wonder whether it’s all worth the effort.
Starting gradually will help you to avoid this feeling and is more likely to keep you moving in a positive direction.
Start with two to three structured workouts each week, combining cardiovascular exercise and resistance work.
The cardio will help get your blood flowing, will help you burn fat, and will increase your cardiovascular capacity.
The resistance work will increase lean muscle mass, which in turn will improve your metabolic rate and help you burn fat even at rest.
We have a great 24-minute fat-burning workout you can follow to get started that combines resistance training and cardio in a format called metabolic resistance training (MRT).
Once you have developed the habit of working out three times per week for 25-30 minutes, you can start scaling up the intensity and the number of sessions you perform.
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Step #5 – Add Supplements To Your Plan To Boost The Benefits
Once you have the four key principles above, you can introduce supplements into your plan to help boost the benefits further.
At the Fit Father Project, we recommend five core supplements that will help your efforts:
- A quality multivitamin or greens powder
- Fish oil
- Vitamin D3
- Probiotic
- Protein powder
Multivitamin
Although you should be getting everything through your natural diet, a quality multivitamin or greens powder is a backup solution to make sure you are getting all the vitamins and minerals you need to keep your body in good health.
Fish Oil
Fish oil supplementation has an abundance of health benefits, including decreasing inflammation, lowering LDL cholesterol, raising HDL cholesterol, and enhancing brain function, to name a few.
Vitamin D3
Vitamin D3 is often referred to as the ‘sunshine vitamin' as your body produces it naturally when subjected to sunlight.
However, supplementing with it can be beneficial, especially for stronger bones, improved muscle function and less muscle atrophy, decreased risk of certain cancers, and decreased risk of type 2 diabetes.
Probiotic
Your body will thank you for supplementing with probiotics, especially your gut.
Probiotics help with improving digestive function, healing inflammatory bowel conditions, and boosting your immune system.
If you suffer from any symptoms of an uncomfortable stomach, then you need to supplement with probiotics today.
Protein Powder
Protein powder can be used to prepare shakes that will replace a particular meal, possibly breakfast, as a convenient way to make sure you are getting enough protein each day to support muscle growth or maintenance.
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Summary
So there you have it, four simple steps (plus one bonus step) that show you exactly how to get back in shape at any age.
Step #1 – Proper mindset
Step #2 – The right amount of sleep
Step #3 – A good healthy eating plan
Step #4 – A progressive exercise plan
Step #5 – Supplementation plan
We don’t provide you with anything gimmicky here at the Fit Father Project, just simple, straightforward advice. We want to be your one-stop resource for everything health and fitness-related. Come back and visit us regularly to learn more. We post new articles to our blog every few days and provide exercise tutorial videos and other educational videos on our YouTube Channel throughout the week.
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*Please know that weight loss results and health changes/improvements vary from individual to individual; you may not achieve similar results. Always consult with your doctor before making health decisions. This is not medical advice – simply very well-researched info on how to get back in shape.
